Why Do I Coach? I'll start with my why? What gets me up every morning and drives me to be more, do more and have more. It's my family and loved ones, along with an unquenchable thirst to leave people and things better than I found them, and leave better than I came.
Where did that desire come from? It came from my single mom at the time, with 3 kids, desperate to impart her treasure chest of "wisdom." She would often tell us to adjust, addapt and overcome our thinking and push past, over, around or through when faced with a problem. She was a "solution" provider. She would always shower me with positivity and affirtmations. So you can easily see, for me and my siblings, there were no "excuses" just solutions. This would then be God's "lens" prescription of life I would begin to see the world through. Whether it has been my children, grandchildren, sports, clubs, military or professional organizations I have ALWAYS desired to coach, mentor and teach others to solve issues and seek solutions. It was seeing others succeed that stimulated my fulfillment in life.
Although, I've often heard it said, "How you do anything is how you do everything." So as I began to look back on my life. I realized I had certain unheathy paterns in my relationships and dreams I wanted and I didn't know why? The truth is I still had past hurts and pains I hadn't dealt with. However, just like most people, I hid them really well. I would do everything to make everyone believe I was doing awesome. I would do anything to be liked. I would do anything to feel loved. So it wasn't until I surrendered to asking for help from my fiance (a business owner/coach), as well as, hiring a personal life coach that my life began to blossom and prosper beyond my wildest dreams.
Therefore, It's no wonder I am currently fulfilling my "why", my purpose, as a Life Coach. You see for the past 31 years, I have been coaching, mentoring and leading people from across many facets, backgrounds and industries with various aspirations, dreams and goals to find their Path to Purpose, their "why." Click below for a "free" discovery session with me. If you want to learn more about me, click below.